Yesterday I wrote here my opinion that you should take at least one year to decide to marry your future spouse. I would like to add some supplementary comments.

Why I think so is ¡ÈLove is blind¡É.
When you fall in love, you cannot think calmly. It is likely that everything looks good about a boyfriend/girlfriend. For example, Romeo and Juliet, they fell in love each other and they chose death. If their marriage had not been opposed, their love would have cooled down and broken up in three months. They were teenagers. It's nothing unusual. Sorry it is dreamless and too realistic.

But..................., There are exceptions.

1. Human values change
Human values change, as you are getting older. Especially, the younger you are, the more it changes. The values you had when you were a teenager are not the same as you have now. Even if you take more than a year to find out your future spouse's true character, his/her thoughts and values etc. change. If you cannot adjust the change each other, you would feel uncomfortable.

2. Human has a learning ability
If you are not young and have a lot of experiences, especially have a divorce experience, you do not need to take time so much to choose your future spouse, I think. It is just my opinion.

As it happens, the love between Shido Nakamura and Yuko Takeuchi has finished.

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