Recently I read an autobiography of Kyosen Ohashi.

He says that your children will become independent soon. And then you and your partner are left alone at home. You will spend more than half of your life with your partner. Unless you are on good terms with your partner, you would lead a lonely life. If you do not hit it off very well, you should part and look for a new partner.

It makes sense.

Now in Japan how to prevent a retirement divorce is one of the topics, but Kyosen-san's thought is not bad, I think.

Anyway I think that husbands and wives should be independent. A wife should have a job and be independent financially and a husband should be able to do all the household chores.

I think how to prepare for a sudden announcement of middle aged divorce is very important as well as how to prevent a retirement divorce.

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