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2006-10-31 Tue 08:43
I heard a man met a girl at a matchmaking party three months ago. He has decided to marry her only in three months.
I would take at least one year. Everyone wears his/her mask in order to be loved and tries to play a nice and kind person at first. Everyone can pretend to be an ideal future husband/wife for three months. But I am not saying that it is a bad behavior to do so. It is just that you should find out the truth with your own eyes. I think that it would take more than three months to find out your future spouse's true character. Don't you think so? ¡¡I heard a man met a girl at a matchmaking party three months ago. He has decided to marry her after only three months. I would take at least one year. Everyone wears his/her mask in order to be loved and tries to play a nice and kind person at first. Everyone can pretend to be an ideal future husband/wife for three months. But I am not saying that it is wrong to do so. It is just that you should find out the truth with your own eyes. I think that it would take more than three months to find out your future spouse's true character. Don't you think so? |
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Hello. My name is Mojo. I think this is the first time that I leave a comment here. °ã¤Ã¤Æ¤¿¤é¤´¤á¤ó¤Ê¤µ¤¤¡£
I understand what you're saying. Marry in haste and repent at leisure, they say. But I must say proverbs can be wrong sometimes. My exhusband and I had dated + lived together for about 5 years before we got married, but our married life was miserable and it didn't last longer than that. I'm now remarried, this time, happily. It didn't take us more than a month to get married. The moment we met, I knew he, my current husband, was the one. It's been more than 5 years since then, and I still believe my instinct was absolutely right. You don't always need a year to decide to get married, I think. ±Ñʸ¥À¥¤¥¢¥ê¡¼¡¢´èÄ¥¤Ã¤Æ¤¯¤À¤µ¤¤¡ª±þ±ç¥¯¥ê¥Ã¥¯¤·¤Æ¤¤¤¤Þ¤¹¢ö Hi Mojo,
Thank you for your comment. I see what you mean. I agree with you, too. It is not true of everything. And I think that the intuition is very important in human relations. I am going to write a supplementary explanation today. Anyway now you seem very happy! (^-^)¡¡ |
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